How To Pick Up Women
One of the questions that
most men have is how to pick up women. First you have to understand that
this is a skill that most men do not possess and this counts in your favour. It is important to understand that knowing how to attract women and how to approach women is not
some skill that you are either born with or not.
It is a skill that can be learned like any
other. It involves consistent practice and measuring of results. You need to identify what works for you. If you,
like most men, get discouraged by this painstaking trial and error approach, there are a few tips that can help you
to learn how to pick up women.
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1. Go To The
Yes, this may seem
like simple advice when it comes to learning how to pick up
women but so often men try to approach women where the competition is just too much. Bars and night clubs are
examples of places where women get hit on by 10 guys per minute while they are mostly only interested in a night
out with their friends.
If you do go to these places you can use it as
a training ground to get some practice, but don't expect to get quality results. It is best to approach women at
unsuspecting venues like coffee houses , parks, libraries, bookstores etc. It
will soon be clear that there are a lot less
competition and therefore women don't have their "radar" on high alert
2. You Need To
You have to build trust quickly in order to
pick up women. This may seem difficult when it is clear that you are approaching her for one reason only. To be
successful, you have to first build trust before approaching her. For instance, if she is in a bookstore reading a
book , find a chair close to her. Wait a few minutes, then ask her to watch your seat
because you need to go to the bathroom.
By doing this, you will convey a subtle message
that you trust her and extending trust to someone will almost always result in the trust being reciprocated.
When you return, thank her for watching your seat where after you will
find that she is much more approachable.
It better to make a joke for best results.
Something like "I need to go to the bathroom, if anyone comes close to my notebook, I need you to arrest
them." This will set you up nicely to have a conversation with her and then
you can move on to next step.
3. The "Gotta Go" Closure.
Once you have had a bit of a conversation going
with her, pretend that you have received a text message from a friend and that you need "to go". This type
of interruption will provide you with an opportunity to say: "I have
to go, but I would like to continue our
conversation, what are you doing on ..."
By implementing this approach, you are actually
asking her out on a date and because the conversation was interrupted you will leave her with the sense that
you are not needy, you have a life of your own and that you and her still have
something to talk about.
This strategy does take some practice, but
remember that knowing how to pick up women is just another skill that can be learned. The more you practice this, the more comfortable you will
become with this approach.
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